10 Ways To Keeping couple Not cheating

10 Ways To Keeping couple Not cheating
No person want their couple do an affair. For that, you must be smart to keep the family so as not to 'play with fire'. In some cases, a lot of women who have given everything to keep him, but still cheated. 

"Finding a man and seduce them an easy thing, but you also have to keep the him to remain romantic and not turn to another woman," said Caterina Christakos, a romance expert, quoted from Cosmopolitan USA. 

For example, the story of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston. Prior to this handsome actor affair with Angelina Jolie, he and Aniston are Hollywood celebrity couple of the most harmonious. However, all of them foundered after Pitt worked with Jolie on the movie "Mr. And Mrs. Smith" in January 2005."

The relationship of friendship or coworkers between men and women may be a love affair," says Shirley Glass, author of Not "Just Friends": Protect Your Relationship from Infidelity and Heal the Trauma of Betrayal, "many people think that they are 'just friends ', but over time can turn into a love relationship because very often together, "he added.Most men are attracted to women who "strong" and erect. Like Jolie, she is a woman who is so tempting because of smart, strong and independent after cheated by her ex-husband, Billy Bob Thorton.

 "Men are interested in women who are independent, it is not easy to give up, and do not like to chase the man," said Sherry Argov, author of Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship.Therefore, try to refer to the following ten ways that can be applied in your relationship so that couples do not 'fall' into the lap of another woman. 

1. Got Passion 
To prevent cheating, you have to have the passion itself. Know yourself and chase your passion, not only for couples, but also for yourself. "Many women are often 'forget' their needs because it is too fascinated with current lover. Biggest challenge a woman in a relationship is to maintain his dignity," explains John Gray, author of Men, Women, and Relationships. 

2. Full of Passion 

Being graceful and intelligent woman who is good, but not necessarily so. You should point out to your partner if you have a great passion for life. Tell him whatever you want, do not be afraid or ashamed. In addition, do not settle first with something that is still lacking, but to prove to him that you are willing to try something new. 

3. Recent Activity Perform Together

Besides being able to harmonize the relationship, often a new activity with friends is one way to keep him in order not to cheat. Maybe you and your lover have so busy each have less time together. However, you can overcome it with a weekend or holiday when it is traveling to a new place to do something that has never been done together.

4. Never Too Possessive 
Not a few women who became possessive after courtship. For example, a woman named Patricia (29) is often angry with her lover if she does not answer or reply brief message. He also had to come to the whole show lover. It can make a man even affair. "The reason a person is too possessive because he did not feel safe with her partner," said dr. Dennis Neder. Instead, you will be granted only. He also has a personal interest that does not always have to involve the partner.

 5. Never Too Jealous 
Jealousy is normal. However, do not be excessively jealous. Give him the confidence that he will respect you. "Confidence is the ability to self, honesty, integrity and sincerity from others," said John Gray, author of Men, Women, and Relationships. Gray also added that he began to believe he will not withdraw. 

6. Got Privacy 
Everyone has privacy unnecessarily distributed to others, including your partner if not married. Having the world itself was important. Do not be afraid to live without a partner. Show your lover that you can 'live' without it. Your attitude can make it even does not want to lose you. 

7. Say What You Want 

Uncover what you want to say to him. No need to hesitate or sulking because he did not understand the 'code' you. 

8. Responsible for Yourself Happiness 

Most women tend to hang their happiness as a couple. In fact, only you could make a happy life. Find out what you really want to do. "Building a relationship with the right people should increase happiness in your life," says Munchline Paul, author of The Art of Loving. 

9. Give Praise 

It is inevitable that you will be pleased praised by the couple. But in fact, men need more praise than you. Infidelity is often the case because you do not know how to grab the attention of men and tease them. "She was not the cause of cases of infidelity and women should not be a victim," said Alexandra Penney, author of How to Keep Your Man monogamous. 

10. So the Best 
When in a relationship with a man, be the best. Do the things that could make him and you happy. Control his own ego and try not to be selfish. It's a sign that you are a grown woman.